Party on our anniversary

Party on our anniversary

Some people asked how we spend our anniversary here in Davao. We planned to be out at the hotel we got married- but postponed that for a week.  But of course Sunday evening we had a special dinner with our family and some friends.

Renewal of vows

Renewal of vows

25 years after getting married we decided to renew our marriage vows. Actually we were first thinking to do this at a local church – but than we decided to just do it as a video. So all of you you witness and we can go back to listen to our own vows anytime in the future. The recording was a very special – and also a very emotional – moment for the two of us. But the vows are not just a video or a show – it is a statement, that even after 25 years we stick together – for better or worse. We believe it is important to make commitments to each other – especially in a time where it seems that the traditional view of marriage is replaced by an often short-term arrangement between two people. In German, there is a term “Lebensabschnittsgefährte” which literally means “Companion for a period of life”. But marriage is much more than that.